The Effortlessly Feminine Litia: Why She Should Be the Next Bachelorette If Grant Doesn't Choose Her

On The Bachelor, we've seen contestants who join for fame or social media clout, but with Litia, It's clear that she' s here for real love-someone to grow with and build a future together. I also love the chemistry between her and Grant, and the way he opens up to her shows that there's a deep connection.

I truly believe Grant is falling for Litia , and I hope he's drawn to more than just looks because ahe brings so much more to the table. So far, Litia and Juliana are my favorites this season. Litia with her effortless femininity and emotional depth. She had two consecutive one-on-one dates.

But if, for any reason, Grant doesn't choose her , one thing is clear Litia deserves true love and Bachelor Nation should make her the next Bachelorette.

photo featuring Litia Garr

One of the most compelling moments with Litia was when she opened up to Grant about how his comment, "you don't get told no a lot because you are very" was actually triggering for her . She vulnerably shared that, her experience with relationships, she has been told no. She emotionally revealed that she spent three and a half years in an on and off relationship, assuming she and her partner at the time wanted the same thing only to realize they didn't.

Litia made it clear that she's not here to play games, she wants marriage and a family and she's tired of dating. Seeing her open up in this way showed that she's more than just a contestant; She is ready to be in a commitment relationship with someone who wants the same thing marriage.

Another important takeaway is that being beautiful doesn't meant life is easy or that love comes effortlessly. Often women who are considered conventionally attractive are objectified rather than truly seen for who they are.

• Litia wants a real, meaningful connection not just admiration.

  
  

• As women, one of the biggest mistakes we sometimes make is giving men the benefit of the doubt, hoping they will come around when they've shown us who they are.

Litia did the right thing by walking away from her previous relationship, and it's clear she has grown from that experience. She now speaks her mind and openly shares what bothers her without fear of ruining what she has with Grant.

• Instead of holding back, she told him the truth about how his comment made her feel.

• This shows her growth, she no longer suppressing her emotions to keep the peace, but rather standing firm in her feelings.

• Speaking up about what bothers us isn't being difficult, it's setting boundaries

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In conclusion, I truly hope Litia ends up with a man who genuinely loves her for who she is. So far, she and Grant have a great connection and, I hope it's built on more than just attraction but on something real and lasting.

Wishing all the best to Litia, Grant, and the rest of the ladies on the show as they navigate this journey to find true love.